The Wife Of Noble Character: Part 8 -Proverbs 31:30-31 (INNER BEAUTY)

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:30-31(NIV)
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Proverbs 31:30-31(MSG)
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God. Give her everything she deserves. Festoon her life with praises!
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“Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord [reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], she shall be praised. Give her of the product of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city].” -AMPLIFIED

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched … but are felt in the heart.” ~Helen Keller

Today we have the culmination of the noble woman. Lemuel imparts to us the source of her success and competence; it is her God-given wisdom. God has blessed her with this wisdom not only because she asked for it, but because she treated Him with the respect and reverence that was due Him. Take note:

“For the reverence and fear of God are basic to all wisdom. Knowing God results in every other kind of understanding.” – Proverbs 9:10 (TLB)

Lemuel turns our focus today to the noble woman’s inner beauty. He teaches us that this inner beauty is of more importance than any outer beauty could be.

“Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful.” ~Jacqueline Bisset

“Charm can be deceptive and physical beauty will not last, but a woman who reveres the Eternal should be praised above all others. Celebrate all she has achieved. Let all her accomplishments publicly praise her.” -(VOICE)

We find Lemuel pointing out two characteristics that many suitors look for in a wife; charm and beauty. The Amplified Version adds a third grace. Charm is the defined as the power of pleasing or attracting others; to enchant, fascinate and please. Grace has to do with how one carries oneself, their movement is smooth and flows. Beauty, in this instance, has to do with the outward look of a person; this person is pleasing to look at.

All three of these characteristics in a person though can be passing and even deceptive.

Charm can be deceiving. I remind you of what Solomon taught us about the charming, seductive woman:

“The lips of a seductive woman are oh so sweet, her soft words are oh so smooth.
But it won’t be long before she’s gravel in your mouth, a pain in your gut, a wound in your heart. She’s dancing down the primrose path to Death; she’s headed straight for Hell and taking you with her. She hasn’t a clue about Real Life, about who she is or where she’s going.” -Proverbs 5:3-6 (MSG)

One’s gracefulness will change as one ages. So it too cannot be counted as a lasting attribute.

“Beauty without virtue is like a flower without fragrance.” ~Woodrow Kroll

Finally we address one’s outer beauty; which many count as of utmost importance in finding a wife. But outer beauty too can be passing; it fades. The passage of time is often rough on our facial features. We grow old, as well as grow wrinkles. Our hair grays and our body droops. Inner beauty is of more important than external beauty; it will last. Peter wrote about this very thing. Look at his words of advice given to women everywhere:

“Don’t focus on decorating your exterior by doing your hair or putting on fancy jewelry or wearing fashionable clothes; let your adornment be what’s inside—the real you, the lasting beauty of a gracious and quiet spirit, in which God delights.” -1 Peter 3:3-4 (VOICE)

“Outer beauty pleases the EYE. Inner beauty captivates the HEART.”
~Mandy Hale

“Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn’t last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised. Praise her for the many fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from people of importance.” -(TLB)

We need to mention that Lemuel indicates that the woman who fears and revers the Lord should be celebrated and praised; for she has chosen wisely to follow in the Lord’s ways. Because of this obedience God has blessed the work of her hands abundantly.

“Reward her for what she has done, and let her achievements praise her at the city gates.” -God’s Word Translation

Remember:

“Honor comes through “humility and the fear of the Lord.” ~NIV footnote

I remind us all of the need to cultivate and groom our inner beauty; which is of more importance than our outer beauty. The Bible reminds us of this need.

“They looked to Him (GOD) and were radiant; their faces will never blush in shame or confusion.” -Psalm 34:5 (AMP)

“Blessed are those who are pure in heart—they will see God.” -Matthew 5:8 (VOICE)

“You should not judge by outward appearance. When you judge, search for what is right and just.” -John 7:24 (VOICE)

Consider how Paul encouraged us to do to develop our inner beauty.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, fill your minds with beauty and truth. Meditate on whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is good, whatever is virtuous and praiseworthy.” -Philippians 4:8 (VOICE)

“The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.” ~Audrey Hepburn

My friend, stop focusing on your outer beauty exclusively and start focusing on your inner beauty. The inner beauty is what will last you a life time; outer beauty is just a passing thing. Put God first in all things and trust that He is developing your character and inner beauty. In the end, what God thinks of you is of more importance than what others think of you.

“That’s the thing about inner beauty: Unlike physical beauty, which grabs the spotlight for itself, inner beauty shines on everyone, catching them, holding then in its embrace, making them more beautiful too.” ~UNKNOWN

My Prayer:
Heavenly Father, forgive me for focusing on my outer beauty more than my inner beauty. I realize that what truly important to you is the condition of my heart and my character. Help me, Lord, to focus on growing and developing the true me. I want you to be glorified in my life, Lord. Let the portrait of this noble woman be a standard for me to follow; remind me of her good and godly example. Thank you, Lord.

The Wife Of Noble Character: Part 7 Proverbs 31:28-29

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:28-29 (NIV)
Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”

Proverbs 31:28-29 (MSG)
Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise:
“Many women have done wonderful things, but you’ve outclassed them all!”
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“Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, prosperous, to be admired); her husband also, and he praises her, saying, “Many daughters have done nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.” -AMPLIFIED

“Real contentment must come from within. You and I cannot change or control the world around us, but we can change and control the world within us.”
~Warren Wiersbe

Today we reach the climax of this hymn or poem that Lemuel wrote about the noble woman. As he winds toward the end of his description we find the outcome of this woman’s choice to live life following God’s ways and living wisely. There are two results pointed out by Lemuel:

1.) Her children respect her and call her blessed.
2.) Her husband praises her as well.

In the Hebrew the word bless is “barak”. It means to “kneel down and show honor and respect”. We know that in the Greek that blessed, “ef̱tychisménos” means “happy, content, or fortunate.” We will see in today’s text that the outcome of this noble woman’s life is respect, honor and true happy contentment.

“Her children rise up and bless her. Her husband, too, joins in the praise, saying: “There are some—indeed many—women who do well in every way, but of all of them only you are truly excellent.” -(VOICE)

Lemuel tells us that this woman’s children stand and call her blessed. This insinuates that they tell others about their dear mother who loves them and cares for them. They are not ashamed of her. They speak her name with respect and love.

In turn, her husband also speaks of her lovingly, with fondness and deep respect. He tells all who will listen, “There are many fine women in the world, but my wife is the best of them all!”

“Her children stand and bless her; so does her husband. He praises her with these words: “There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!” -(TLB)

The husband of this woman celebrates her noble character. He insists that she has exceeded, outperformed and bypassed all other woman. She is the best! All of this points back to the very beginning of this poem where we find Lemuel telling us:

“An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls.” -Proverbs 31:10 (AMP)

“If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems!” -Proverbs 31:10 (TLB)

“Who can find a truly excellent woman? One who is superior in all that she is and all that she does? Her worth far exceeds that of rubies and expensive jewelry.” -Proverbs 31:10 (VOICE)

The noble woman’s husband can testify to the fact that he found the best wife for him. She is not only a blessing to others she is blessed.

The noble woman understood the lesson that Jesus taught His followers about giving freely:

“Freely you have received; freely give.” -Matthew 10:8 (NIV)

“Don’t hold back—give freely, and you’ll have plenty poured back into your lap—a good measure, pressed down, shaken together, brimming over. You’ll receive in the same measure you give.” -Luke 6:38 (VOICE)

Remember Jesus’ way of thinking when it comes to dealing with others:

“Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God’s Law and Prophets and this is what you get.” -Matthew 7:12 (MSG)

The noble woman as called blessed because she had learned how to treat others, and also how to be happy and content in her life. It did not take things to make her happy. She understood that the world did not revolve around her. It was her intent to do for others, bless others, and to honor God in doing so. She was indeed worth more than rubies.

Remember, we are blessed for the sole purpose of blessing others; that is Scriptural:

“A giving person will receive much in return, and someone who gives water will also receive the water he needs.” -Proverbs 11:25 (VOICE)

“God is able to make it up to you by giving you everything you need and more so that there will not only be enough for your own needs but plenty left over to give joyfully to others. It is as the Scriptures say: “The godly man gives generously to the poor. His good deeds will be an honor to him forever.” For God, who gives seed to the farmer to plant, and later on good crops to harvest and eat, will give you more and more seed to plant and will make it grow so that you can give away more and more fruit from your harvest. Yes, God will give you much so that you can give away much, and when we take your gifts to those who need them they will break out into thanksgiving and praise to God for your help.” -2 Corinthians 9:8-11 (TLB)

“Make sure you don’t take things for granted and go slack in working for the common good; share what you have with others. God takes particular pleasure in acts of worship—a different kind of “sacrifice”—that take place in kitchen and workplace and on the streets.” -Hebrews 13:16 (MSG)

“God didn’t add another day to your life because you needed it. He did it because someone out there needs you!” ~UNKNOWN

My friend, do you consider yourself blessed; that is happy and content? Remember, contentment does not come through accumulating things, but from God. It is a by-product of our choosing to do things His way. That means thinking of others more highly than ourselves; just the opposite of what the World tells us. I hope and pray that today you will realize what it truly means to be blessed.

“The greatest blessing the whole world is being a blessing.” ~Jack Hyles

My Prayer:
Dear Lord, fill my heart with your agape love for others. Help me to have the right attitude and intentions towards others. Please give me more of your wisdom and help me to use it in the manner that you desire. I want to be a light for you; a living testament to your faithfulness and goodness. Help me, Lord, to be a blessing to all who cross my path today. Thank you.

The Wife Of Noble Character: Part 6 Proverbs 31:26-27

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:26-28 (NIV)
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Proverbs 31:26-28 (MSG)
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly. She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.
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“She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction]. She looks well to how things go in her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.” -AMPLIFIED

“Make your decision on what you know to be the greater good for you and your family. You do not live unto yourself but with those to whom you are joined in your household. You have a responsibility to them.” ~Al Troester

Lemuel now brings us to the noble woman’s moral management of her family and household. We are reminded that she is both wise and intelligent; a prudent and loving counselor to her loved ones. Remember, we have already learned that she is the personification of Lady Wisdom; here we find this truth truly noticeable.

“She conducts her conversations with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is ever her concern. She directs the activities of her household, and never does she indulge in laziness.” -(VOICE)

This noble woman speaks words of wisdom and kindness rules over her tongue. Stop and think about that for a moment. Ask yourself, when I am disciplining my children are my intentions to teach and build up? Or do I react in anger? Have I said things that I wished that I had not? Or have I gently and kindly given instructions on how to do things in the good and proper way?

It is so easy to react to a situation quickly, without thinking, and in anger. What we should be doing is stopping ourselves, so that we can think clearly. We need to be giving godly counsel and guidance; teaching wisdom. Remember this bit of advice from Solomon:

“Good sense and discretion make a man slow to anger, and it is his honor and glory to overlook a transgression or an offense [without seeking revenge and harboring resentment].” -Proverbs 19:11 (AMP)

Albert Barnes referred to the noble woman as using the law of kindness. Consider his thoughts:

“Law of kindness – The words which come from the lips of the true wife are as a law giving guidance and instruction to those that hear them; but the law is not proclaimed in its sterner aspects, but as one in which “mercy tempers justice,” and love, the fulfilling of the law, is seen to be the source from which it springs.” ~Albert Barnes’ Notes on the Whole Bible

“When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. She watches carefully all that goes on throughout her household and is never lazy.” -(TLB)

Guidance and good, godly counsel within the family circle is of utmost importance. How can a child learn if they are not taught? How can they understand if they are not trained? Once again we return to a bit of Solomon’s instruction:

“Where there is no [wise, intelligent] guidance, the people fall [and go off course like a ship without a helm], but in the abundance of [wise and godly] counselors there is victory.” -Proverbs 11:14 (AMP)

The noble woman had a firm understanding of her responsibility in leading and guiding her family and household. Notice, Lemuel tells us that she never indulged herself in laziness. She knew that she had a commitment to her family and she took that obligation seriously; no half-way with her.

We need to remind ourselves of what Paul wrote to the servants in the Colossian church:

“So no matter what your task is, work hard. Always do your best as the Lord’s servant, not as man’s, because you know your reward is the Lord’s inheritance. You serve the Lord, the Anointed One, and anyone who does wrong will be paid his due because He doesn’t play favorites.” -Colossians 3:23-25 (VOICE)

For all practical reasoning, we are servants to our families, our spouses, our churches, but ultimately to our God. We need to remember that that we are to be like Christ; and He had the heart of a servant.

“In other words, adopt the mind-set of Jesus the Anointed. Live with His attitude in your hearts. Remember: Though He was in the form of God, He chose not to cling to equality with God; but He poured Himself out to fill a vessel brand new; a servant in form and a man indeed. The very likeness of humanity, He humbled Himself, obedient to death—a merciless death on the cross!” -Philippians 2:5-8 (VOICE)

The noble woman may not have known Jesus Christ, but she knew the Father. She lived her life as a testament of her belief in God and her faith in the coming Messiah. She immersed herself in the things of God, and she learned her lessons well so that she could pass them on to her offspring. This noble woman was indeed wise.

“Teach a wise man, and he will be the wiser; teach a good man, and he will learn more. For the reverence and fear of God are basic to all wisdom. Knowing God results in every other kind of understanding. “I, Wisdom, will make the hours of your day more profitable and the years of your life more fruitful.” ~Solomon (Proverbs 9:9-11 TLB)

My friend, the family that God has given you is your most important responsibility. It is your job to lead and guide your children. God has commissioned you to be their wise leader. Are you teaching them and counseling them in the ways of the Almighty?

“He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.” ~Francis Bacon

My Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I ask for more of your wisdom as I lead the family that you have placed in my care. Help me to be the best mother/father that you have intended for me to be. Remind me that speaking words of guidance in love and kindness is better than in anger and frustration. In those times of difficulty and trouble please help me to slow down and to listen to Your still, small voice within. Bring to my mind your Word and its wisdom. Place in my mouth words of godly counsel that will build up and help growth to happen in those I love. Thank you, Lord.

The Wife of Noble Character: Part 5 -Proverbs 31:23-25

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:23-25 (NIV)
Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

Proverbs 31:23-25 (MSG)
Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops. Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
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“Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes [fine] linen garments and sells them; and supplies sashes to the merchants. Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; and she smiles at the future [knowing that she and her family are prepared].” -AMPLIFIED

“True leaders bring out your personal best. They ignite your human potential.”
~John Paul Warren

Today, as we consider the woman of noble character, we will find that she is a woman of influence and respectability; true signs of a great leader. We have seen that this noble woman is indeed a true leader. She sets positive examples for others. She influences others to become their best; namely her husband in today’s text. She is honored and respected among her peers.

“A good, supportive, trusting wife is a blessing to a man. A woman who partners with her husband, who is reliable and looks out for his interests, gives a man a security that is greatly lacking in the world. She is worth more than a substantial paycheck. To bring in the metaphor, wisdom provides the same benefits—it is worth more than money, you can always trust it to make the right decision, and it provides blessings for those who have it.” ~Got Questions Ministries “What should we learn from the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31?”

“Everyone recognizes her husband in the public square, and no one fails to respect him as he takes his place of leadership in the community. She makes linen garments and sells them in the market, and she supplies belts for tradesmen to carry across the sea. Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.” -(VOICE)

We see leadership skills in both the noble woman and her husband. For this to take place in a marriage we need to understand that both husband and wife must be supportive of one another. Remember what has been stated before in this blog,
“We find within these lines a woman who complements her husband, completes him, the two work as one.”

“She is a loving wife, and feels for the respectability and honor of her husband. He is an elder among his people, and he sits as a magistrate in the gate. He is respected not only on account of the neatness and cleanliness of his person and dress, but because he is the husband of a woman who is justly held in universal esteem. And her complete management of household affairs gives him full leisure to devote himself to the civil interests of the community.”
~Adam Clarke Commentary

I remind you of a lesson that Solomon taught us:

“A dignified wife brings honor to her husband, but a shameful wife is like decay eating away at his bones.” -Proverbs 12:4 (VOICE)

It is important to note that this woman is clothed with strength and dignity; NOT shame and disgrace, the complete opposite. She has nothing to hide and nothing to fear. In fact, we are told that she smiles at the future; for she has nothing to fear, she is prepared. The Message Versions tells us that she faces tomorrow with a smile. (Great attitude!)

“Her husband is well known, for he sits in the council chamber with the other civic leaders. She makes belted linen garments to sell to the merchants. She is a woman of strength and dignity and has no fear of old age.” -(TLB)

“Leadership is unlocking people’s potential to become better.”
~John C. Maxwell

As a leader this woman realizes the need to influence others positively. One way of doing this is by her example of hard work.

Notice, it is noted once again that this noble woman is skilled, industrious, enterprising and hard-working. She makes linen, linen was associated with the noble people, and sells it. She even supplies the merchants with sashes, or as some versions translate it, girdles. The girdle or sash was used as a wallet or purse wrapped around the waist. They could be made very ornamental, made of costly materials and crafted with great detail. They were used by both men and woman at that time.

The noble woman’s influence with her husband, family and others is pertinent to her leadership. She understood the need to be supportive, encouraging, and lead by example.

The Apostle Paul reminds us of a few things that will be helpful in learning leadership skills. Paul tells us:

“So support one another. Keep building each other up as you have been doing.” -1 Thessalonians 5:11 The Voice (VOICE)

“Work hard so God can say to you, “Well done.” Be a good workman, one who does not need to be ashamed when God examines your work. Know what his Word says and means.” -2 Timothy 2:15 (TLB)

“Titus, you have to set a good example for everyone. Go out of your way to do what is right, speak the truth with the weight and authority that come from an honest and pure life. No one can argue with that. Then your enemies will cower in shame because they have nothing bad to say against us.” -Titus 2:7-8 (VOICE)

“Leaders should influence others in such a way that it builds people up, encourages and edifies them so they can duplicate this attitude in others.” ~Bob Goshen

My friend, as leaders in the various positions that we hold, we are to be people of influence and respectability. Influence others for good. Be supportive. Be encouraging. Be hardworking and industrious. In doing so, you will have nothing to fear. You can look toward the future with a smile knowing that you are prepared whatever may come.

“The most powerful moral influence is example.”
~Huston Smith

My Prayer:
Almighty God, help me to be an influence-er for good. Impart to me more of your wisdom, Lord. Help me to be the best leader that I can be in the positions that you have placed me in. Remind me to always do my absolute best so that I will have nothing to worry about or fear. Always help me to remember whose I am and whom I am representing, YOU. Be glorified in and through me, I pray.

The Wife of Noble Character: Part 4 -Proverbs 31:19-22

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:19-22 (NIV)
In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Proverbs 31:19-22 (MSG)
She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking. She’s quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor. She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear. She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
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“She stretches out her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle [as she spins wool into thread for clothing]. She opens and extends her hand to the poor, and she reaches out her filled hands to the needy. She does not fear the snow for her household, for all in her household are clothed in [expensive] scarlet [wool]. She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry. Her clothing is linen, pure and fine, and purple [wool].” -AMPLIFIED

“A lack of generosity refuses to acknowledge that your assets are not really yours, but God’s.” ~Tim Keller

Today we find the text of Lemuel’s noble woman focusing on a woman who has foresight, is conscientious, productive and helps those in need. This woman does not have one lazy bone in her body. We have been told that she pushes on through the night to accomplish all of her responsibilities; and I can say with great confidence that she probably puts most of us to shame.

“Her hands skillfully place the unspun flax and wool on the distaff, and her fingers twist the spindle until thread forms. She reaches out to the poor and extends mercy to those in need. She is not worried about the cold or snow for her family, for she has clothed them all in warm, crimson coats. She makes her own bed linens and clothes herself in purple and fine cloth.” -(VOICE)

The noble woman gives an amazing example of skill and industry to her household and family. She applies herself and makes her own yarn to weave her own clothe, to create her on clothing for herself and her family. WOW! We need to take notice that what she creates is not second rate either, she designs the best of everything; covers, cushions, rugs, and clothing. She uses scarlet and purple in her dying; which were used only by the kings or those who were wealthy. (This was no second rate work, or just getting by; it was her best for her family.)

“She sews for the poor and generously helps those in need. She has no fear of winter for her household, for she has made warm clothes for all of them. She also upholsters with finest tapestry; her own clothing is beautifully made—a purple gown of pure linen.” -(TLB)

It needs to be pointed out that this woman’s focus was not “just” on her family, but also on the poor and needy. “She reaches out to the poor and extends mercy to those in need.” Since this passage is in the midst of our noble woman sewing and creating clothing, we must assume that she is also producing clothing for the needy in her neighborhood.

I remind you of what Solomon taught us about taking care of the needy and the poor:

“Those who have contempt for their neighbors are sinners, but those who are kind to the poor are happy.” -Proverbs 14:21 (VOICE)

“Whoever cares for the poor makes a loan to the Eternal; such kindness will be repaid in full and with interest.” -Proverbs 19:17 (VOICE)

“Generous people are genuinely blessed because they share their food with the poor.” -Proverbs 22:9 (VOICE)

Moses also spoke to the people of Israel instructing them of their responsibility of taking care of the poor and needy. He told them:

“Unfortunately, there will always be poor people throughout the country. That’s why I’m giving you this command: give generously to your fellow Israelite, to the poor and needy in the land.” -Deuteronomy 15:11 (VOICE)

I remind you of what Jesus taught His followers in how they should treat others:

“Think of the kindness you wish others would show you; do the same for them. Listen, what’s the big deal if you love people who already love you? Even scoundrels do that much! So what if you do good to those who do good to you? Even scoundrels do that much! So what if you lend to people who are likely to repay you? Even scoundrels lend to scoundrels if they think they’ll be fully repaid. If you want to be extraordinary—love your enemies! Do good without restraint! Lend with abandon! Don’t expect anything in return! Then you’ll receive the truly great reward—you will be children of the Most High—for God is kind to the ungrateful and those who are wicked. So imitate God and be truly compassionate, the way your Father is.” -Luke 6:31-36 (VOICE)

So, what should we be taking away as a lesson learned from the noble woman today?

1.) Be sure that you are taking the responsibility of the care of your family.
2.) Work hard and give your best to your family.
3.) Be sure that you are being generous with those in need.

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.”
~Winston Churchill

My friend, these lessons apply to us all; not just to women. Let us be responsible and supportive of the family; for it was God Himself who instituted it. If we are not caring for our family circle, who will? And yes, there will always be the poor and needy among us. Let us take that responsibility seriously as well. God loves a cheerful giver.

“The more you give, the more comes back to you, because God is the greatest giver in the universe, and He won’t let you out-give Him. Go ahead and try. See what happens.” ~Randy Alcorn

My Prayer:
Lord, you have given me my family. Remind me that they deserve my attention and my best care; for they are my gift from you. Help me to be the example and light that I need to be within the family circle. Prompt me to be a helper to the poor and needy as well; for they too are dear to you. Remind me that when I do anything to the least of these that I do it unto you. Lord, I want to give my very best to you; that includes doing my best for those in need. Let my heart be giving in the right attitude; so that I am always bringing glory to your name, Lord.

The Wife of Noble Character: Part 3 -Proverbs 31:16-18

Growing with God: A daily devotional with Tonia Slimm.

Proverbs 31:16-18 (NIV)
She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.

Proverbs 31:16-18 (MSG)
She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden. First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started. She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
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“She considers a field before she buys or accepts it [expanding her business prudently]; with her profits she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard. She equips herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] and makes her arms strong. She sees that her gain is good; her lamp does not go out, but it burns continually through the night [she is prepared for whatever lies ahead].” -AMPLIFIED

“Nothing shapes your life more than the commitments you choose to make.”
~Rick Warren

Today, as we carry on with Lemuel’s description of the noble woman, we learn a few more wise characteristics of this woman.

1.) She is a planner. She sets goals and she works toward them.
2.) She is a woman of sound judgement.
3.) She is prepared and ready for whatever comes her way; strong and confident.
4.) She is dedicated and determined to finish her projects; hard working.

Her motto is: “Press on till the job is done!”

“She has a plan. She considers some land and buys it; then with her earnings, she plants a vineyard. She wraps herself in strength, carries herself with confidence, and works hard, strengthening her arms for the task at hand. She tastes success and knows it is good, and under lamplight she works deep into the night.” -(VOICE)

Lemuel’s description of the noble woman may be leaving you with the impression that this woman was Superwoman. She seems larger than life and her shoes impossible to fill. Do not be overwhelmed though, this woman’s example is one for us to learn from, to emulate and to challenge ourselves to become more like her. Remember how Lemuel started this passage:

“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” -(NIV)

The Easy-to-Read Version conveys Proverbs 31:10 in this way:

“How hard it is to find the perfect wife. She is worth far more than jewels.” -(ESV)

“She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard. She is energetic, a hard worker, and watches for bargains. She works far into the night!” -(TLB)

This noble woman is the polar opposite of the description of the sluggard found is Proverbs. She is hard-working, shows good judgement and dedicated. This woman sees a field, buys it and cultivates it. Contrast her to the sluggard that Solomon told us about:

“Once I passed by the property of a slacker, by the vineyard of a foolish man. You should have seen it! The entire field was overgrown with thorns. Every inch was covered with weeds. Even the stone wall was crumbling down. I took a moment to take it all in. The scene taught me: “A little sleep, a little rest, a few more minutes, a nice little nap.” But soon poverty will be on top of you like a robber, need will strike you down like a well-armed warrior.” -Proverbs 24:30-34 (VOICE)

And I remind you of what Solomon taught us about being apathetic and lazy. He contrasted the sluggard to the industrious and productive person; what a difference:

“A slack hand produces nothing but poverty, but an industrious hand soon takes hold of riches.” -Proverbs 10:4 (VOICE)

I remind you once again, this noble woman of good character is the embodiment of wisdom. Woman, you may not be her, but you can strive to be like her. We are to seek more wisdom in our lives; Lord knows we all need it. I remind you of Solomon’s advice to us:

“For wisdom is better than rubies; and all desirable things cannot compare with her.” -Proverbs 8:11 (AMP)

“For wisdom’s profit is better than the profit of silver, and her gain is better than fine gold.” -Proverbs 3:14 (AMP)

“How much better it is to receive wisdom than the riches of gold and to gain understanding over some silver prize!” -Proverbs 16:16 (VOICE)

I also remind you of Lemuel’s words:

“Who can find a truly excellent woman? One who is superior in all that she is and all that she does? Her worth far exceeds that of rubies and expensive jewelry.” -Proverbs 31:10 (VOICE)

We all can learn from this woman of noble character; man, woman, and child. We all could benefit from her example of being hard-working, diligent, planning, and being prepared; in season and out of season. This woman was not caught off guard; she was ready to face whatever challenges life brought her way. She was prepared and ready on her part, and trusting and relying on God to handle what she herself had no control over. As we continue to examine and study this noble woman over the coming days, let us not become intimidated by her abilities, but let us determine to become more like her.

“Nothing paralyzes our lives like the attitude that things can never change. We need to remind ourselves that God can change things. Outlook determines outcome. If we see only the problems, we will be defeated; but if we see the possibilities in the problems, we can have victory.” ~Warren Wiersbe

My friend, part of gaining wisdom is determining to set goals and make changes in our lives. It also involves learning from our mistakes. That means that when I make mistakes, and we all do, that I understand what I have done wrong and determine not to do it again. This noble woman was not born this way; she was only human. She made mistakes and determined to learn from them. Her life is a testament to what God can do within each of us if we allow Him to make us and mold us. Determine to be pliable in the Master’s hands today.

“Do not be lazy. Run each day’s race with all your might, so that at the end you will receive the victory wreath from God. Keep on running even when you have had a fall. The victory wreath is won by him who does not stay down, but always gets up again, grasps the banner of faith and keeps on running in the assurance that Jesus is Victor.” ~Basilea Schlink

My Prayer:
Lord, I need your help in obtaining more wisdom. There are so many times that I mess up and fail you, others and myself. I am sorry, Lord; please forgive me. Help me not to get stuck in those failures, giving up. Instead, remind me to seek your forgiveness, to stand up, dust myself off, reach for your hand once again and to press on. I am determined to become the person that you always meant for me to be. I will not accept failure as an option. The sluggard’s way will not be the way I will go. I will press on and be a living testimony to you, Lord.

The Wife of Noble Character: Part 2 -Proverbs 31:13-15

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Proverbs 31:13-15 (NIV)
She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.

Proverbs 31:13-15 (MSG)
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing. She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises. She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.
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“She looks for wool and flax and works with willing hands in delight. She is like the merchant ships [abounding with treasure]; she brings her [household’s] food from far away. She rises also while it is still night and gives food to her household and assigns tasks to her maids.” -AMPLIFIED

“I believe in the me God made and in the me God can make. I believe he made me on purpose and didn’t make any mistakes when it came to my creation. I believe he is doing a good work in me, and in you. And that though I am flawed, God is loving me and refining me and reminding me that God in me is where I can place my trust. And that is the place where I find my courage.” ~Annie F. Downs

We continue to delve into Lemuel’s wisdom of the character of a noble woman. We will find in today’s verses that this woman was skilled, industrious, enterprising and hard-working.

“Delight attends her work and guides her fingers as she selects the finest wool and flax for spinning. She moves through the market like merchant ships that dock here and there in distant ports, finally arriving home with food she’s carried from afar. She rises from bed early, in the still of night, carefully preparing food for her family and providing a portion to her servants.” -(VOICE)

Lemuel immediately points out to us that the noble woman delights in her work. She enjoys it and takes pleasure in it; which indicates that she was going about her business with the right attitude.

This noble woman was skilled with her hands, working with wool and flax. This means that at some point in her life she had to sit and learn from another. She diligently studied her and accepted help; becoming proficient and accomplished in her practice. This takes patience and perseverance.

This noble woman learned also to be enterprising in her shopping and trading. She would go to the marketplace and look for the best deals; bringing home delicacies from afar. If we look further along in this passage we will note this attribute referred to again:

“She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.” -(NIV)

Finally, in today’s passage we see that the noble woman is hard-working, diligent in her duties and never a waste-er of time. She is up before dawn cooking breakfast for her family and paying out the plans for those who work for her. She would never be considered a sluggard.

“She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She buys imported foods brought by ship from distant ports. She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plans the day’s work for her servant girls.” -(TLB)

This noble woman is the epitome of Lady Wisdom; whom Solomon taught us about.
Wisdom is responsible, compassionate, generous, and caring. She is attentive to detail and a woman of integrity. She is cooperative and has a positive attitude. She is understanding and respectful. And the list goes on and on.

We all know that life at times our lives are stressful, trying and seemingly unfair, but that does not give us leave to quit doing our best. God wants us to press on; keep working for His glory. Paul told us:

“So let’s not allow ourselves to get fatigued doing good. At the right time we will harvest a good crop if we don’t give up, or quit. Right now, therefore, every time we get the chance, let us work for the benefit of all, starting with the people closest to us in the community of faith.” -Galatians 6:9-10 (MSG)

“Don’t quit, and don’t give up. The reward is just around the corner. And in times of doubt or times of joy, listen for that still, small voice. Know that God has been there from the beginning-and he will be there until . . . The End.” ~Joanna Gaines

My friend, God has a purpose and a plan for each and every woman. He has called them to be women of godly wisdom; working toward furthering His Kingdom. He is even interested in how you handle the small things in this life. Never let anyone look down on you for caring for your family.  That family is the gift that God has given you and they are your responsibility. Go about caring for them to the best of your ability.

“There will never be another woman who owns the look, the personality, and the experience that you do. Those ingredients make up the recipe that defines who you are, and it’s your gift from the Lord – own it.” Candace Cameron

My Prayer:
Lord, pour your blessings out upon the godly woman in my life. Those who have chosen to do things your way. Those who have touched others’ lives in a positive manner in order to further your Kingdom. Help me to encourage those women and remind them that their lives are a living testament to the goodness of You, Lord. Remind me to pray for those women and also to encourage them when life becomes stressful. Lord, be glorified in our homes, our families and our lives.

The Wife of Nobel Character: Part 1 -Proverbs 31:10-12

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Proverbs 31:10-12 (NIV)
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

Proverbs 31:10-12 (MSG)
A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
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“An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls. The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence], and he will have no lack of gain. She comforts, encourages, and does him only good and not evil all the days of her life.” -AMPLIFIED

“The woman was made of a rib out of the side of Adam; not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be beloved.” ~Matthew Henry

The book of Proverbs closes out with the description of an amazing character, the virtuous wife. Lemuel takes his time to write out the qualities of a good and noble woman, who not only fears the Lord, but is a partner and help-meet to her husband. We find within these lines a woman who complements her husband, completes him, the two work as one.

This epilogue at the end of Proverbs consists of twenty-two verses. In the Hebrew it is an acrostic poem; each verse beginning with a successive letter of the Hebrew alphabet. (The beauty of this is sadly lost in the translation.)

As we look into the qualities of this noble woman take the time to compare her to Solomon’s description of Lady Wisdom. We will soon realize that this noble woman is almost the persona of Lady Wisdom herself.

“Who can find a truly excellent woman? One who is superior in all that she is and all that she does? Her worth far exceeds that of rubies and expensive jewelry. She inspires trust, and her husband’s heart is safe with her, and because of her, he has every good thing. Every day of her life she does what is best for him, never anything harmful or hurtful.” -(VOICE)

Lemuel states that it is truly amazing to find a good wife; one who is excellent and noble, of good character. This woman is superior in all that she is and all that she does. Lemuel informs us that is sort of woman is priceless and he gives us few reasons why this is so:

1.) She inspires trust. She can be wholly and completely trusted.
2.) Her husband knows that his heart is safe with her. In other words, she will not intentionally hurt him.
3.) She will never hurt or hinder him spitefully, but seeks to advance him with confidence.

“If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems! Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs. She will not hinder him but help him all her life.” -(TLB)

This woman is confident and comfortable in her own skin and advancing her husband does not bring her down. She realizes that by helping him become a better man she is in fact helping them to become a better couple. Her mentality is NOT me first, my needs, my wants, me, me, me, but it is how can I help my husband become the man God intended him to be so that we can be the couple God wants us to be. This woman understands the wisdom in Solomon’s proverb in Proverbs 12:4:

“A virtuous and excellent wife [worthy of honor] is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him [with her foolishness] is like rottenness in his bones.” -(AMP)

Lemuel tells us that this woman of noble character is indeed her husband’s crown. For this woman seeks to bring him good, not harm. He can fully trust her. The husband who finds this type of woman realizes that she truly is a gift from God; just as Solomon has taught us.

“He who finds a [true and faithful] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor and approval from the Lord.” -Proverbs 18:22 (AMP)

“House and wealth are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and sensible wife is [a gift and blessing] from the Lord.” -Proverbs 19:14 (AMP)

In the coming days we will explore more of what is entailed in being a noble woman of good character. We will delve into Lemuel’s words of wisdom, learned from his own godly mother.

“When a wife strives to model Christ, she influences her husband with her Godly behavior.” ~UNKNOWN

My friend, the world’s idea of a woman’s place is very different from what the Bible teaches us. We need to remember who we are in Christ and what God intended woman to be. Woman, you are to be the help-meet of your husband. Men, you are to treasure your wife as the gift from God that she was meant to be. As we go forward into this study of the noble woman, let us understand that we find our worth not in our spouse, but in Jesus Christ our Lord.

“Nothing is more beautiful than a woman who is brave, strong and emboldened because of who Christ is in her.” ~Joni Lamb

My Prayer:
Lord, I am grateful for the godly woman in my life that have influenced my life positively for you. Remind me always that this is not just a man’s world, but you have created both male and female for a purpose. They were meant to work together in order to further your Kingdom. You have a purpose and a plan for each of our lives. Help us to live up to our full potential in you, Lord. Bless the woman in my life. Thank you.

Speak for and Defend the Weak -Proverbs 31:8-9

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Proverbs 31:8-9 (NIV)
Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Proverbs 31:8-9 (MSG)
“Speak up for the people who have no voice, or the rights of all the down-and-outers. Speak out for justice! Stand up for the poor and destitute!”
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“Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are unfortunate and defenseless; open your mouth, judge righteously, and administer justice for the afflicted and needy.” -AMPLIFIED

“It’s wrong, very wrong, to go along with injustice.” ~Solomon “Proverbs 24:23 MSG)

As has been previously stated, Lemuel’s mother felt that his primary job, his calling, was to defend the poor and needy; those who were unable to defend themselves. She desired that her son would be an advocate for those who were unable to take care of themselves.

“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.” ~Albert Schweitzer

“Speak out on behalf of those who have no voice, and defend all those who have been passed over. Open your mouth, judge fairly, and stand up for the rights of the afflicted and the poor.” -(VOICE)

In today’s proverb we find four definitive commands directed toward Lemuel, the king; on his responsibilities towards others. If we refer to the VOICE we find these three directives:

1.) Speak out on behalf of those who have no voice.
2.) Defend all those who have been passed over.
3.) Open your mouth and judge fairly.
4.) Stand up for the rights of the afflicted and the poor.

Lemuel’s mother taught him well. She realized the need to for someone to stand up and defend the helpless; those who could not defend or speak up for themselves. She realized that life is often NOT fair and she desired that her son would be a representative, an agent or promoter of justice.

“You should defend those who cannot help themselves. Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless, and see that they get justice.” -(TLB)

“God has chosen us to help one another.” ~Smith Wigglesworth

Solomon was also an advocate for justice. He taught us quite a few things about stepping up for and defending those who could not defend themselves. Solomon taught us:

1.) “Do not withhold what is good from those who deserve it; if it is within your power to give it, do it. Do not send your neighbor away, saying, “Get back with me tomorrow. I can give it to you then,” when what he needs is already in your hand. Make no plans that could result in injury to your neighbor; after all, he should be more secure because he lives near you.” -Proverbs 3:27-29 (VOICE)

2.) “There is the one who [generously] scatters [abroad], and yet increases all the more; and there is the one who withholds what is justly due, but it results only in want and poverty.” -Proverbs 11:24 (AMP)

3.) “It’s criminal to ignore a neighbor in need, but compassion for the poor—what a blessing!” -Proverbs 14:21 (MSG)

4.) “Whoever oppresses the poor insults his Maker, but anyone who is gracious to the needy honors Him.” -Proverbs 14:31 (VOICE)

5.) “Don’t walk on the poor just because they’re poor, and don’t use your position to crush the weak, because God will come to their defense; the life you took, he’ll take from you and give back to them.” -Proverbs 22:22-23 (MSG)

Even Jesus taught His followers to treat others with respect and love. He advocated for living a life of justice among all men.

“So then, in everything treat others the same way you want them to treat you, for this is [the essence of] the Law and the [writings of the] Prophets.” -Matthew 7:12 (AMP)

In Psalm 82 we find Asaph writing about what God’s expectations are from us towards the poor and needy. Asaph warns us that if we choose to ignore God’s way of doing things, there will be held accountable. Asaph wrote:

“God stands up to open heaven’s court. He pronounces judgment on the judges. How long will you judges refuse to listen to the evidence? How long will you shower special favors on the wicked? Give fair judgment to the poor man, the afflicted, the fatherless, the destitute. Rescue the poor and helpless from the grasp of evil men. But you are so foolish and so ignorant! Because you are in darkness, all the foundations of society are shaken to the core. I have called you all “gods” and “sons of the Most High.” But in death you are mere men. You will fall as any prince—for all must die. Stand up, O God, and judge the earth. For all of it belongs to you. All nations are in your hands.” -Psalm 82 (TLB)

“What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.” ~Augustine

My friend, our life’s goal is to be a light for Jesus, and this includes being a voice and a defender for those who cannot speak up for or defend themselves. Are you being an advocate for those who cannot speak for or defend themselves?

“The good man knows the poor man’s rights; the godless don’t care.” ~Solomon (Proverbs 29:7 TLB)

My Prayer:
Lord, let your love be in me. Help me to be a defender of those who cannot speak up for or defend themselves. Let my life be a light for you; showing others the love of Jesus at work in the World today. Forgive those times that I may have turned away from those in need; those times I may have hardened my heart because I felt that there was nothing that I could do. Remind me, Lord that even words of encouragement and a helping hand can build up hope in others. Work in my heart, Lord, and help me to have a heart like Jesus’.

The Problem with Alcohol-Proverbs 31:4-7

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Proverbs 31:4-7 (NIV)
It is not for kings, Lemuel—it is not for kings to drink wine, not for rulers to crave beer, lest they drink and forget what has been decreed, and deprive all the oppressed of their rights. Let beer be for those who are perishing, wine for those who are in anguish! Let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more.

Proverbs 31:4-7 (MSG)
“Leaders can’t afford to make fools of themselves, gulping wine and swilling beer, lest, hung over, they don’t know right from wrong, and the people who depend on them are hurt. Use wine and beer only as sedatives, to kill the pain and dull the ache of the terminally ill, for whom life is a living death.
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“It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine, or for rulers to desire strong drink, otherwise they drink and forget the law and its decrees, and pervert the rights and justice of all the afflicted. Give strong drink [as medicine] to him who is ready to pass away, and wine to him whose life is bitter. Let him drink and forget his poverty and no longer remember his trouble.” -AMPLIFIED

“Temperance keeps the senses clear and unembarrassed, and makes them seize the object with more keenness and satisfaction. It appears with life in the face, and decorum in the person; it gives you the command of your head, and secures your health, and preserves you in a condition for business.” ~Jeremy Collier

We now find Lemuel addressing the second piece of advice that his mother drilled into him. This bit of advice has to do with the bypassing excessive drinking of alcohol. In some circles this would be called temperance otherwise known as self-control, soberness, or abstinence.

“Take care, my son, O Lemuel. Kings should not drink too much wine or rulers should not crave strong drink; for if they do, they will become drunk and forget the decree they just made and alter the course of justice for all the poor and afflicted. Rather, give liquor to one who is dying, and offer wine to those struggling with life’s harsh realities. Let such a one drink and forget what he is missing; then perhaps he won’t remember his sorrows anymore.” -(VOICE)

Lemuel’s mother warned him that in order to keep a clear mind and a good reputation he needed to stay away from strong drink. She felt that strong drink was good for medicinal purposes or for those who were heavy in heart.

“The true purpose of the power of wine over man‘s mind and body, as a restorative and remedial agent. Compare the margin reference. The same thought showed itself in the Jewish practice of giving a cup of wine to mourners, and (as in the history of the crucifixion) to criminals at their execution.” ~Albert Barnes’ Notes on the Whole Bible

“And it is not for kings, O Lemuel, to drink wine and whiskey. For if they drink, they may forget their duties and be unable to give justice to those who are oppressed. Hard liquor is for sick men at the brink of death, and wine for those in deep depression. Let them drink to forget their poverty and misery.” -(TLB)

Solomon warned us about the dangers of strong drink. He had this to bit of advice to give us:

“Whose heart is filled with anguish and sorrow? Who is always fighting and quarreling? Who is the man with bloodshot eyes and many wounds? It is the one who spends long hours in the taverns, trying out new mixtures. Don’t let the sparkle and the smooth taste of strong wine deceive you. For in the end it bites like a poisonous serpent; it stings like an adder. You will see hallucinations and have delirium tremens, and you will say foolish, silly things that would embarrass you no end when sober. You will stagger like a sailor tossed at sea, clinging to a swaying mast. And afterwards you will say, “I didn’t even know it when they beat me up. . . . Let’s go and have another drink!” -Proverbs 23:29-35 (TLB)

Even the Apostle Paul felt the need to address the sin of drunkenness and alcoholism. Paul wrote to the Ephesian church and warned this group against excessive drinking:

“Don’t drink wine excessively. The drunken path is a reckless path. It leads nowhere. Instead, let God fill you with the Holy Spirit. When you are filled with the Spirit, you are empowered to speak to each other in the soulful words of pious songs, hymns, and spiritual songs; to sing and make music with your hearts attuned to God; and to give thanks to God the Father every day through the name of our Lord Jesus the Anointed for all He has done.” -Ephesians 5:18-20 (VOICE)

The problem with alcohol is that when one chooses to imbibe it is very easy to lose control and drink too much, becoming drunk. When this happens, the person often does things that they would not do or say when they are sober.

“I am a spiritual being… After this body is dead, my spirit will soar. I refuse to let what will rot rule the eternal. I choose self-control. I will be drunk only by joy. I will be impassioned only by my faith. I will be influenced only by God. I will be taught only by Christ.” ~Max Lucado

My friend, the drinking of alcohol has become a hot topic in Christian circles. I am not going to say that drinking alcohol of any kind is a sin, but I would remind you that when intoxicated it is very easy to lose control over your actions. It is also much easier to offend others; which is something that we should be carefully trying not to do. I leave you with this bit of advice from the Apostle Paul:

“So then, let us pursue [with enthusiasm] the things which make for peace and the building up of one another [things which lead to spiritual growth]. 20 Do not, for the sake of food, tear down the work of God. All things indeed are [ceremonially] clean, but they are wrong for the person who eats and offends [another’s conscience in the process]. It is good [to do the right thing and] not eat meat or drink wine, or do anything that offends your brother and weakens him spiritually.” ~Paul (Romans 14:19-21 AMP)

My Prayer:
Lord, lead and guide me in this area of alcohol. If this means abstinence so that I do not offend another, so be it, Lord. I know that my testimony for you is more important than the need for drink. Lord, I do not want to be a stumbling block for another. I want my light to shine bright for you. Let your agape love be in me and make me strong in the power of your might, oh Lord. Thank you.